Wednesday, September 19, 2012

despite the rumours, i somehow have never believed that lee hom is gay, because i don't have any reasons to buy into them. so when he publicly locked lips with the venerable jackie chan (reports here, here and here), i... i... just don't get it. why can't they just high five? or bear hug? (oh, they did that.) or just go with the timeless handshake? i know they are super close buddies from their Little Big Soldier 大兵小將 days, and they tend to sing praises about each other in interviews, but this... is... what? why?

anyway, i googled for 'why do heterosexual men kiss' and there are actually articles about it (read this and this). one of the article says that: 'Heterosexual men kissing each other in friendship is an offshoot of what happens when homophobia is reduced. At these universities, overt homophobia has reduced to near extinction, permitting those men to engage in behaviour that was once taboo. Men are kissing each other in university clubs and pubs, in front of their peers, and for many it serves as an occasional, exuberant greeting or banter when partying. The kiss is a sign of affection in student social spaces, a sign of victory on the pitch, or celebration at a nightclub but it does not have a sexual connotation in any of these spaces. It seems generally younger people are becoming more and more open minded with each generation.'

erm okayy. i'm somewhat assuaged, but still i find this unorthodox approach to greeting a friend (of any gender) rather erm.. peculiar. maybe i'm not as liberal as i think i am hahaha..

3 comments:

  1. Well, I don't think LH enjoyed the kiss. It looks like JC grabbed his face and just planted one on him. Lol

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    1. yeah, i think the same too. but i just wonder why. i mean.. WHY?? publicity? or did JC really think it was funny? so many questions.

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    2. I personally think JC thought it was funny. Remember when Chow Yun Fat was in one of the Pirates of Caribbean movies? They had the premiere at Disneyland and he kept kissing Orlando Bloom.

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